I know that wanting to get your ex back is a nature part of the breakup scene. But what happens if your ex doesn’t want to get back together? Sometimes things are just not worth fighting for. If you’re trying to get your ex back but are not sure whether or not they will ever take you back, scan through the checklist below to find out if it is even worth your efforts.
1- Do they linger when on the phone or in person?
If your ex wants to get back together, he or she will find a way to make your conversations and meetings together longer than normal. If they make things short and sweet (sometimes not so sweet) then you may not get your ex back.
2- Do they contact you often?
If your ex is sending short emails throughout the day or text messages every time they do something, then it is obvious that they are not ready to let go of having you in their life. If you haven’t heard from them in months then its possible that you won’t get your ex back.
3- Are they trying to be mysterious? Flirty? Busy?
If your ex suddenly appears to be too busy to chat one day but super flirty with you on another day, then you may be on the right track to getting your ex back. This erratic behavior just goes to show you that they too are trying their hardest to get you to notice them and want them back. They are probably just waiting on you to take it to the next level.
4- Are you in their future?
During your chats, emails, texts, and personal meetings with your ex, do they speak about their future and include you in plans? For example, does your ex talk about graduation, parties, vacations, etc that somehow include you? If so, then your ex is ready to get back together. Your ex wouldn’t try and include you in future plans if they knew that they truly didn’t want to get back together with you.
5- What’s your gut say?
Ultimately, your gut should be able to tell you whether or not your ex has lingering feelings for you or if they just don’t want to get back together. Trust that instinct to know whether or not you should be putting the effort into trying to get your ex back.