If you’ve ever asked your closest buddies about what to do to get your ex girlfriend back, almost every one of them will advice you to move on and forget her. Now, the strange thing is that advice always sounds crazy because they’re not the one in your shoes and they certainly don’t understand that you’re still in love with her (now that is if she was the one who broke your heart in the first instance). Ultimately, the decision is yours to make and what you decide to do should be based on whether or not you feel she is worth it. If you hope to get your ex girlfriend back then you must follow some basic rules.
Begin by apologizing to her. This may sound absurd particularly if she was behind the break up but there is no smoke without a fire, if you think about it. What was the motivation behind her decision to break up with you? Was this her way of getting back at you over something you had done in the not too distant past? Whatever her reasons, it’s never hurts to make amends for all the hurt. Gifts are nice but if you hope to get your ex girlfriend back, buying gifts is not nearly as important as letting her know that you are indeed sincere about your apology because lets face it, this probably isn’t the first time you’re apologizing about something to her.
You must keep in mind that your sincere apology does not include begging her to come back into your life. You’re apologizing because you may have hurt her and that in turn motivated her decision to break up with you. Once this is done, you have to give her ‘space’, meaning, no communication whatsoever must exist between you both. If she believes you’re truly sorry, then the time you give her would allow her make a decision about getting back together or not. There’s no doubt that she’ll miss you but until she gets in touch with you, it’s all about waiting and hope she wants to get back. She may hold out for weeks but if you’re patient enough, you’ll get your ex girlfriend back.
Why is getting your ex back so important to you?
Because a good relationship is one of the most treasured of human interactions. We all want to be loved. There are the great times together, the shared dreams and visions, the mutual likes and dislikes and more. Great relationships are essential for enjoying a good quality of life. They color everything else around us.
Losing a lover is one of the most emotionally traumatizing episodes in our life. It is amazing how the very thing that brings us the most pleasure also brings with it the most grief.
But your situation is not hopeless. Actually, it is far from it. It is quite possible to win your ex back regardless of whether they eloped with someone else or not. I have successfully done it myself and you can do it too. Of course, you have to know how to do it effectively.