Your ex love could have ended your relationship abruptly but there is still a chance that you can rekindle the severed relationship. Most of the severed relationships still have a chance of going back to its former loving state as long as those who have ended it are willing to sit down and be open about the ended relationship.
But talking about your relationship problem is easier said than done. In fact, an effort to go back to your former loving status could yield two results: you could be back together or it could lead to further conflict.
Method #1 Time is an Essence
Reestablishing your relationship with your old flame requires perfect timing. First you have to start talking about your relationship only when the anger and frustration is gone. That means your relationship have to be put on hold for sometime before you start working on getting your relationship back. But you don’t want to stall too long since your former lover could be tired of waiting and might already be with someone. While it’s difficult to reestablish your relationship, it’s almost impossible to do it when your former lover is already with someone else.
Method #2 – Becoming Emotionally Strong
Aside from the right (read: near perfect) timing on reestablishing your relationship, you need to be emotionally ready for this process. As much as you want to deal with the problem as soon as the emotional anger is gone, you need to show to your former partner that you are ready to deal with the problems once again. This means you are way past the stage of being frustrated – not just emotionally but physically as well. Even though physical weakness is not a direct indicator, it can indicate that you are having trouble getting over the pain caused by the severed relationship. Getting your ex love back requires patience, great timing and clear thinking.