Don’t know how to get him to say those three words you’re dying to hear? Afraid that your relationship is going nowhere? Not sure of how to make him really love you? Don’t worry most women are in the dark about how their man feels about them and how to get him to really love them. But there are a few simple steps to show him that your relationship is more than just a fling.
As with all relationship issues, communication is going to be your first step to getting him to see you in a long term light. Girls spend their entire lives dreaming of meeting the perfect guy and falling in love, remember guys are not necessarily raised the same way. Many times they are happy just spending time with you and never really think of the importance of moving things further. If you don’t want to be the first one to say it, then your best option is to drop little hints that show him that you’re thinking long term.
It is important to note here that while you may be able to get your man to want you with just a look or a sexy outfit, getting him to fall in love with you is nowhere near as easy. Falling in love involves invoking a man’s real emotions and he may not be as willing to share them as he is with his sex drive. Therefore, your hints must be emotional in nature without trying to overly pressure him.
When talking or spending time together, let him know just how important he is to you, without seeming overly desperate. Making a guy feel like he’s your only reason for living, just might be too much pressure and will send him running. But let him know how happy he and the relationship make you, and always be willing to tell him about all the good memories you have together. This way if he’s thinking he’s enjoying the relationship and wants to make it permanent, he’ll have the idea that you would like that too.
Talk about your hopes and dreams for the future. While you may not directly state how much you’d want him in your future forever, let him know that there’s a place open if he wants it. Let him know your dreams of marriage and if you want kids or where you want to go. Letting him know that you want to get married someday, not only gets the idea of marriage in his head, but lets him know that if he’s not willing to step up to the plate, someone else might be.