After a few weeks of being on your own, you may suddenly wake up one morning with a burning thought on your mind “I want my ex back”. This is fairly normal reaction to be having if you find that you are still in love with your ex. Something else you may find is that you haven’t the slightest clue how to go about getting your ex back. What you may find yourself doing is looking around for help so that you don’t make a complete mess in your attempts to win back my ex.
First off, before you begin trying to get your ex back, make sure that you aren’t going through the natural process of grieving the fact that your relationship has come to an end. When most relationships end there is a period of time when the hurting and missing is so intense that it is very much like grieving a lost one. During this time, it is very common to have the feeling of “I want my ex back,” and for this feeling to consume any others that you may be feeling.
This happens because you are grieving all the hopes and dreams that were wrapped up in your ex love and the relationship you shared. Just make sure that before you begin to get your ex back, that you aren’t just going through this grieving process.
Going with the assumption that this is more than just the natural grieving, you are ready to do something about your thought of “I want my ex back” your next step should be to figure out exactly what went wrong.
This is important, because unless you take the time to recap on the mistakes you may have made, then getting back together with your ex will eventually lead to the same result you are in today. Own up to any mistakes you may have done that contributed to the break down of the relationship.
An important tip is to not focus on what you may believe your ex did wrong. Let them take care of their own stuff and you take care of your own issues. There will be time in the future to deal with any collective causes, but for now you must work on your own issues.