Would you like to not only earn his love but have him chasing after you? Do you know what it’s going to take to reel the guy of your dreams in? Would you like to have him eating out of your hand? If any of these scenarios apply to you then you must continue reading this article. By following these tips, not only will you earn his love, but he will be seeking you out instead of the other way around.
1) Create some mystery
There is a fine line between being honest and revealing too much information about yourself. He doesn’t have to know everything about you-at least not at first. You want him to have questions about you so that his curiosity will be peaked. If he feels that he knows everything about you then he won’t feel the need to spend more time with you to learn more. Reveal little bits of yourself a little bit at a time.
2) Try the mini-date
One great way to earn his love is to make him think that you have been dating longer than you actually have been. You can do this by creating the illusion that you’ve been on more dates than you have really been on. So how can you do this? By using what is called the “mini-date.” When you go to the movies, for instance, don’t just go to the movies and then call it a night. Go for a drink before hand and then for a walk afterwards. That way, instead of only going to one destination, you’ve actually gone to three. It will feel like three different dates.
3) Treat him like a friend
There is a lot of pressure when it comes to commitment, dating, and where the relationship is bound. Instead of thinking of commitment as the destination, think of your relationship as a journey. Enjoy your time together. When you’re out with one of your friends, you’re not constantly thinking about where the relationship is headed, right? Well, don’t think about it with your guy either. This way, you’ll be more relaxed and this will make him feel comfortable. Soon, he will want to spend more time with you because he’ll have fun when he’s around you and he won’t feel as though you are pressuring him into anything.
Dating can be just as stressful for a man as it is for a woman. By following these tips and keeping the pressure off of him, he will soon love being around you and that will, in turn, make him want to be around you even more. It’s then that you will be able to earn his love and create a meaningful relationship.