Making a man feel loved is really fairly easy. It is much easier to please a man than for him to please you in fact.I know it sounds crazy but men are pretty straight forward.
Men want to be appreciated and respected. Even if you are in a relationship where both of you work, he still needs to hear that you appreciate how hard he is working.
And if he does something around the house, let him know that you noticed and are grateful for his help and support. The more you let him know that you truly appreciate all he does for you, the more he will be willing to do. Make sense?
Men especially need to feel needed. This is particularly true if you make more money than he does.
Men show affection through their actions more than by an outpouring of romantic words. You can do the same for him. Yes, tell him that you love him but also show him.
Make him or order in his favorite meal, every once in a while. There is a reason they say that a way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Just like providing for you is hard wired into him, the idea of a woman cooking a meal still has universal appeal. There is something very loving about providing a meal.
If he has a particular passion show an interest in it. Buy him the fishing pole he has been eyeing or actually sit down and watch a game with him. Let him know that you have been listening and actually care about what interests him. And if he is going through a tough time, listen and support him.
Showing a man that you love him means just that. Love letters and proclamations of love may be the way to your heart but a back massage and a well cooked steak may be the way to his.
How to Make You Man Feel Good
Making your man feel good is not difficult at all. Do the things that most women won’t and you are 90% ahead of the game and no I am not talking about bedroom acrobatics here.
Despite the fact that most magazines make it seem as if you need to memorize the kama sutra to keep your guy happy, there are easier more subtle ways to keep him satisfied.
How to Make You Man Feel Good – Listening 101
Actually listen to what he has to say. Don’t just sit there waiting for a pause in the conversation so that you can get your two cents in. Really take an interest in his interests.
How to Make You Man Feel Good – Quiet the Nag
Don’t bombard him with a dozen questions or chores when he gets home from work. These things are much more likely to get done if you don’t nag him about it. Let him relax for a half an hour before bringing up anything unpleasant.
How to Make You Man Feel Good – Put down the Bon Bons
Take as much care in the middle of your relationship as you did in the beginning. Work out. Put on makeup. Care about the way you look.
How to Make You Man Feel Good – Might as Well Face Facts
Accept him for who he is. It would drive you bonkers if someone tried to change you. If there are things that he does that bug you, talk to him about it honestly. If you have a heart to heart without harping he will be much more receptive to making you happy.
How to Make You Man Feel Good – Love Him Love His Friends
Ragging on his friends won’t endear you to him. If a particular friend is a bad influence don’t threaten. Calmly point out the behaviors that only take place when he is with this particular friend. Forbidding him from hanging out with his friends, as if he was a tantrum throwing teenager, is not the way to keep him happy. If the behavior is disrespectful leave.
Heart Sutra (Prajna Paramitha Hridaya Sutra) – lyrics Sanskrit and English