Are you going nuts over a great guy and you want to make him adore you? Do you sometimes think you have what it takes to get his interest, but then you step out and lose your confidence? Have you taken a good, long look at yourself and you know you’re ready to give all your love to a man, but you don’t know how to start? This article will help set you on the right path to that great relationship.
There was once a time when relationships were clearly defined. Men made the first move, while women waited patiently. Men called, while women waited for that call. Men went off to work while women waited for them at home. Sure, things have changed on the work front, and there is even a significant change in the way we date, but some things should never have changed so much.
The way we bring sex into a relationship is one of them. It’s wonderful that we now have the sexual freedom to go out there and have as much fun as we want, but when it comes to building a solid relationship, being too sexually forward isn’t necessarily a good thing.
Take a hint from the past and start your relationship with him in a friendly way. This might sound a little corny, but by working to make him your friend, you’re not putting any pressure on him to be some unrealistic romance hero. You really should concentrate on ensuring he has a good time instead of giving him a hard time for not being quite as romantic as you might have hoped.
Not all guys have that romantic gene, and some are downright clumsy when it comes to romantic overtures, but that doesn’t mean they’re not great guys nonetheless. Let him enjoy himself with you, and give him plenty of chances to see the kind of woman you are. Mutual admiration and respect can make for a pretty solid base for a relationship. Add to that the fun you always have when you’re together and you’re well on your way.
Though you might be quick to realize you’re falling in love with him, he might not be so quick. Guys can tend to lag behind with this aspect of a relationship, but it’s important to give him the time he needs.
When everything is falling into place and he’s enjoying being with you more and more, he’ll fall in love with you.