Singles always want to know: Where do I go to meet that special someone who’s gonna rock my world?
That my friend, is the wrong question!
Attracting an amazing love isn’t about where you go, or even what you do. It’s really about how you are BEING.
It’s about how you show up in the world, daily, wherever you go.
Let me show you what I mean. The other weekend, I was out at a popular dance spot for singles.
I was chatting with some folks about what it takes to attract your soulmate, or heck, even your next date, when I noticed a very interesting woman on the dance floor.
I was drawn to her not because of her extraordinary good looks, but because of her GLOW.
She had an effervescent charm that exuded from every pore of her. She was not the youngest, the most scantily clad, or the best looking woman in the place- but she was clearly, unabashedly ENJOYING herself.
I almost couldn’t take my eyes off of her- I loved watching her dance because her warm, happy, playful spirit showed through.
I would bet you that every man in the place noticed her the way I noticed her- because she was shining such brilliance you couldn’t help but be attracted to her radiance!
Sure, it didn’t hurt that she was wearing a cute outfit that included a fashionable skirt- but what was so compelling about her was the relaxed, confident, fun-loving vibe she put off so easily, effortlessly.
That’s the Soulmate Magnet Vibe.
This woman got it. She knew that what would attract a great man was WHO SHE WAS. She wasn’t worried about how to find him. She just decided to enjoy herself and shine her best qualities out into the world.
When you know who you are and genuinely like who you are, then suddenly people like you too. They are attracted to you without even knowing why.
They are drawn to you like a moth to a flame, they have to know more about you.
That’s Magnetism. And this woman proved you don’t have to be gorgeous, or young, or nearly naked to exude it.
You exude it by consciously choosing to embody what is best about you- every time you walk out that door.
And when you master stepping into your Best, most Authentic Self, you’ll be able to shine that radiant brilliance and attract the attention of great, emotionally available partners who are ready to share themselves with you.
You’ll find people responding to you everywhere you go. Your whole world can become a “pick-up spot.”
That’s how you attract your soulmate- in an everyday day way- shining your brilliant self, far and wide, for everyone to see!